It’s not like I have to build up courage if I have something to tell her.' 'She’s asked me trillions of questions that really show she cares,' Kat added about her mother's unwavering support. 'Kat decided to drop in our family group text, 'By the way, I’m a lesbian.' I didn’t see it, and I was mad because the dogs pooped in the house, so I wrote back, 'Who let the dogs poop in the house?' It was a total mom fail, and they’ve never let me forget that.' 'All I cared about was creating an environment where they all felt safe, comfortable, happy,' Heather told People, retelling the funny story about how Kat came out to the Drubrows in their family group text chat, but she initially missed the message. The 15-year-old daughter of Real Housewives of Orange County star Heather Dubrow and celebrity plastic surgeon/ Botched host Terry Dubrow publicly opened up in February to People Magazine about what it was like to come out as a lesbian to her family.