Think how often the words appear in drag queens’ punchlines, raunchy brunch conversation, or the headlines of hookup aps and Craigslist ads.
And I realized that I’m strong.’ ”Īfter talking with Daniel, I reflected on how much space the gang bang, as a concept, occupies in the contemporary gay imagination. “After the event, he wrote and said, ‘I realized how much strength I had.
He was in remission, but he had been feeling really weak and didn’t have a very strong self-image, though he was very good looking,” Daniel told me. “The first thank-you note I got-I was almost in tears-was someone who was dealing with cancer.
Daniel says that his clients often have ecstatic reactions to their experiences.